Avoiding problems

Is it possible to avoid problems in your life? Surely what you want most, you say: no problems so the total happiness! For many of you, take the path of avoidance by seeking the highest level of security. The space offered security is to avoid, first of all, problems. I did not address in this article are the problematic aspect of your organizational life, but rather that of your growth, your inner life.

Homeland Security does not exist and stop the search as many do in organizing their lives. An inner peace would be more appropriate term as that of internal security. "The total security exists when there is absolutely nothing, to say nothing that is not created by thought. "

In the world of positive thinking, it is commonly stated that adversity is a sign of growth, developments happy future for those who manage to get through adversity. Adversities, problems and crises faced by each of you are in fact the movement of life that you call yourselves. This movement of life is nothing other than what is happening around you what is in this moment in you.

The magnitude of the problems is caused by a notion of time and a misalignment of what you are. Then fear sets in you gradually over time to solve your problem, your crisis. Since you can not escape the problems of life, because they are part of your evolution to be, you must look at the facts of the problem by turning to you and not to others and even less to impotence or resignation face the fact. "Any man who has problems is a prisoner of time. When you consider the problem of time, you're away from it. But this is precisely the problem. "

The biggest factor that will cripple before the problem is fear. This fear of not responding or not to position yourself properly at issue, the fear of losing something, fear that you adapt. This fear may even lead you to want, desire to escape or run away from it. Remember that any inappropriate behavior, unresolved come again in your life under a new facet with the same message. "Only when we want to avoid the situation that neurotic disorders appear. "It is intolerable that fear that drives many to seek professional psychology.

However, if you know you can not avoid problems, how, then, avoid these corner imperialism long you risk losing some operational or organizational effectiveness? It is too easy to say that we must solve the problem as soon as it appears because I do not speak of a problem outside of you, but what lives in you. Initially, we must recognize this problem and distinguish between fact and your own emotions and let you speak in feeling that you created in the disturbing emotions causing many times discomfort. It is by watching experienced in silence, without thinking, you'll be able to hear the message of the problem. This message is not necessarily delivered within a minute of the onset of the problem. You should just give you the space and time to feel. This action will remove the fear that could move you. "If we must be free from fear, must be free time. If there was no time, there would be no fear. "

Freedom of time you take to free yourself of past and future in the process of problem recognition and the observation post. Is to avoid referring to what was or what will be. For fear arises from past or future and you can breathe in a large insecurity. Krishnamurti is often in his writings that fear comes from the desire for security or losing the so-called security you think you have. As there is nothing permanent in life, there is no safety.

There is presence of problems in your life only if you are not yourself, what is, what happens to you in the here and now. Being in the present time, be in touch with your feelings and be aligned with what you really are, you will see the problem as a measure of reorientation of your life or realignment of what you are compared to what you feel what is within you.