Determine your goals!

What you really want in life?

Most people do not really know what they want until they die, what a pity!

The vast majority of us spend much of our lives watching television or doing something that we do not like. One author wrote: "Most people die at twenty and are buried at eighty. "Are you one of those zombie alive?

What you really want in life?

Some people struggle to answer this question. When asked what they want or what their goals in life, many are still reluctant. They are deeply rooted in their daily decisions and almost never did think that they want to do with their lives. Those that do not define objectives simply leave them spinning. Are you one of those people?

If you are unsure about what you want in your life, do not worry. There are different ways to find your life goals and thus strengthen your self-esteem.

To find what you want, try to look deep within your heart. Often, people follow logic. They live what they believe they should live or what others would like them to be. The process of discovering one's desires is the perfect time to listen to his heart. The desires of your heart are the breath of your authentic self, the ego is the real you.

Listen to your heart to listen to your self. What does your heart is usually right. What your heart desires is what you enjoy doing and this represents your passion. Any task performed with passion is like a game that is played without any hesitation. You give your best and not feel any pressure or resistance.

You will fully enjoy doing what you are passionate about. Setbacks, obstacles and difficulties will be considered chalenge and do not distract from your goal. Naturally there will be obstacles that might prevent you from achieving your goal, but your heart will know how to take and then you'll always get what you want. Remember that the Universe always supports those who follow their passions and their destiny.

However, this does not mean you should not use your head. We are all born with a heart and head. Your duty is to live your life as best as possible and be in harmony with your mind and your heart.

Listen to your instincts. Part of human nature lies in its mysterious and spontaneous reaction. We often call it instinct. You shall be authentic with you and guides you via instincts. Instinct could be likened to a gentle nudge that prompts you to act and follow a particular path. Your role then is to listen carefully.

We too often hear what others say and let them guide our lives. This is usually what the parents with their children. If a child is born into a family of doctors, while his parents wish he was also a doctor. Parents certainly have good intentions, but they unconsciously block the true expression of the MOI of their children. Reviews in our surroundings can be daunting. So before you listen, ask yourself this question: Have they achieved their dreams? Have big dreams?

Remember that it is your life and it is not theirs. That does not mean they should not listen. Do it, but the final decision is yours.

There is one thing to remember: Anyone who wants to live his life fully with a high self-esteem must define what it means to live and how will his life. Listen to your gut and your heart and everything will be fine.