Wednesday, December 9, 2009

How to change a bad habit with your partner

I have known a few women who committed the mistake of trying to transform their husbands constantly reminding them their faults or defects in them always blaming their weaknesses, instead of mentioning their strengths and to appeal to what He is good in them.
The remonstrances have never changed anyone, except to make it worse.
You can criticize and constantly criticize your husband, without causing conflicts, because you awaken in him the spirit of rivalry, and you lose all influence over him.
There is only one way to correct the defects of men and women is always to appeal to what is best in them.
If you want to take a child a knife or a dangerous object, give him a toy or something of interest, and naturally, his own will, he'll drop the thing you want to remove him. But when you try to take him by force, you awaken his opposition and his natural fighting spirit and recalcitrant. Men are such that children should be treated as such.
In general, men are the main fault of disagreement reigns in their homes because they fail to do their part in all that relates to the happiness of the family.

When do you think ladies?
Disagreements are they still due to men?
And you gentlemen, our wives or concubines we call it still too?

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