Wednesday, December 9, 2009

How to seduce?

It is possible to study the communication in the lens of several models. Among them, transcationnelle analysis, and model metacommunication. But what is communication? Start with an observation: when two people are in contact, they are both receiver and transmitter. It is impossible not to communicate because all behavior is interpreted by the other and therefore communication value.

Some employ and often wrongly expression "there was no communication." In reality, communication existed, but it was probably confused, which means that the 2 subjects expressed for reasons of shyness, hostility there is no connection. In terms of seduction, it is often a shyness that grows strong men trying to seduce, not to make contact in connection with the woman target of their desire.

I mentioned several times the term "emotional generosity". What I mean by this expression sincere openness to the other point that we develop in our workshop on Charisma. Simply understand. It is not seeking to create a condition in women that you want, without you even accept you discover and be "affected" by this state, you can create a connection.

Any person shall, therefore, even if it does not want. Better still, we communicate often blind to our anxiety, folding hands or arms, excitement in his voice that rises in the treble, and for the most extreme stammers and reddening. It is about learning to master his body and his body language to communicate the right signals. Understand communicate the message you want to communicate. In seduction, we call this congruence.

In terms of communication, women are intractable. Their system of selection, criteria for initiating a relationship with a man is based on the understanding of communication. Not only words that come out of your mouth, but whatever you want to hide and does not communicate (anxiety, stress).

The goal of our coaching seduction is not to give you a recipe, but you learn the communication codes of women. After realizing what's important in their choice of a man, you'll be able to learn to communicate on the correct channel. And I come in my next article on the metacommunication.

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