When your partner says "I love you more" or "I'm leaving you" or "separate us a little time because I need to find out! "The question is whether you can still save your marriage. How to respond? What to do? Can I save my marriage? My partner can he / she still change their minds? If yes, how?
The answer to this last question is yes, your partner may change his mind! This happens very often, and every day many couples are separating and recovering together as a couple more strong and lasting.
The first question is how to react to avoid making fatal mistakes that you would definitely lose your chance to win back your partner ...
Rule No. 1: You must accept what happens because the evidence denied only increases the problem. You must understand that you can not change the past. By cons you can change your attitude from now in order to give your marriage another perspective.
The announcement that you made your partner want to leave you is not a whim. Rather, the lid of a pressure cooker boiling for too long and just explode.
But you can not deny his right to want to leave you. The first thing is to have at first to accept his decision and to avoid at all costs try to / the monitor as you control a subject. Do not accept is fighting against the impossible. You must accept what comes to expressing your partner.
But this does not mean you have to accept that your relationship is over!
A single goal yet: to survive the shock!
Your immediate problem is survival. Survive the emotional shock that you just live. In a second, you feel suffocated. As if someone had plunged (e) at the bottom of the sea without oxygen. The first thing to do is not primarily to block your emotions. Accept your emotions. The shock is terrible. You do not want to live. You're full. You can no longer find sleep or you do not want to leave your bed. Do not fight against your emotions. Weep. Shout if necessary. Leave out all but one (e) and away from your partner! Before him / her, it showed restraint and restraint.
You choose how you react!
What happens is you who are in control of your reactions. Choose your attitude. You're not a sub-being. You're not half human. You loved a whole human being full. You have everything you need to manage the situation although it seems like impossible now. Your future is in your hands. And anything can happen ...
The answer to this last question is yes, your partner may change his mind! This happens very often, and every day many couples are separating and recovering together as a couple more strong and lasting.
The first question is how to react to avoid making fatal mistakes that you would definitely lose your chance to win back your partner ...
Rule No. 1: You must accept what happens because the evidence denied only increases the problem. You must understand that you can not change the past. By cons you can change your attitude from now in order to give your marriage another perspective.
The announcement that you made your partner want to leave you is not a whim. Rather, the lid of a pressure cooker boiling for too long and just explode.
But you can not deny his right to want to leave you. The first thing is to have at first to accept his decision and to avoid at all costs try to / the monitor as you control a subject. Do not accept is fighting against the impossible. You must accept what comes to expressing your partner.
But this does not mean you have to accept that your relationship is over!
A single goal yet: to survive the shock!
Your immediate problem is survival. Survive the emotional shock that you just live. In a second, you feel suffocated. As if someone had plunged (e) at the bottom of the sea without oxygen. The first thing to do is not primarily to block your emotions. Accept your emotions. The shock is terrible. You do not want to live. You're full. You can no longer find sleep or you do not want to leave your bed. Do not fight against your emotions. Weep. Shout if necessary. Leave out all but one (e) and away from your partner! Before him / her, it showed restraint and restraint.
You choose how you react!
What happens is you who are in control of your reactions. Choose your attitude. You're not a sub-being. You're not half human. You loved a whole human being full. You have everything you need to manage the situation although it seems like impossible now. Your future is in your hands. And anything can happen ...
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